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My Intercourse-Stuffed Weekends Preserve Resulting in a Troubling Aftermath

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I’m a girl who likes to have a LOT of intercourse, a number of occasions a day being excellent. My present companion is tremendous on board with this and we’re very suitable.

Nevertheless, after intercourse, I are inclined to really feel very fuzzy and out of it for some time. This has at all times occurred all through my sexually mature life. I believed this is able to go away as soon as I had a long-term, wholesome relationship that sexually satisfies me, as I do now, nevertheless it nonetheless occurs rather a lot. If I spend a weekend with my companion it may be very onerous to get again into work mode on Monday due to my post-sex haze. I really like having tons of intercourse after I see my companion and really feel nice about my libido total, however I additionally really feel just like the haziness might be disruptive to my common life. What can I do to handle this and higher “combine” intercourse into my day-to-day?

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Aaaah, the sex-drunk hangover—we explored this phenomenon in a current column, so that you may wish to try that dialog. There’s one thing known as put up orgasmic sickness syndrome which might deliver focus difficulties and different points of cognitive dysfunction, although that is uncommon—and normally documented in males. My principle, in case you don’t learn the hyperlink, is that girls merely don’t see it as an issue they’d report back to a physician, and within the uncommon circumstances they do, they don’t get the identical medical consideration. So, no matter your gender and intercourse, do attempt talking along with your physician.

I’ve a sense you aren’t going to love my interim suggestion: Cease the intercourse on Saturday so you need to use Sunday to get well earlier than you need to work. Or, although this might sound wildly impractical, discover a job that accommodates your being foggy from getting frisky. They don’t have to know the particulars, simply that you just’re not your finest initially of the week. Aside from that, all I can counsel is doing all the things else you may to maintain a transparent head (no getting alcohol-drunk), and throwing espresso down your throat till your mind is again on-line on Monday mornings.


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I’m a straight woman in my mid-30s, and over the previous yr, I’ve gotten near a 40-ish married man whom I met by a piece colleague. We’ve began an online-only sexual relationship, with plans to attach bodily sooner or later. I’ve tried to cowl my very own digital tracks—it might be fairly devastating for my work life if my colleague discovered that I used to be sleeping along with her neighbor—so I’m not afraid of his spouse tracing sexts again to me.