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My Husband Has At all times Hated My Son, however His Newest Scheme Is Too A lot

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Pricey Care and Feeding,

My husband and I’ve been married for 40 years, a second marriage for us each. He has two sons and I’ve one, and we even have one son collectively. I’ve at all times beloved and been supportive of my husband’s sons, however he has at all times rejected my son, treating him unfairly. He tries to ban me from giving any cash to my son. Now that we’re older, he has principally written this son out of his will and is making an attempt to make sure that if he predeceases me, I received’t be capable of then give my son an equal quantity to the opposite three sons (his two, and the one son we have now collectively). What can I do?

—Sad Mom

Pricey Sad Mom,

Provided that your husband has “at all times”—all through 40 years of marriage—disliked your son to the purpose that he really rejected him and nonetheless refuses to deal with him pretty, it’s not shocking that he desires to withhold monetary assist and inheritance. Frankly, it’s a little bit arduous for me to grasp why his unrelenting grudge in opposition to your baby hasn’t led to a confrontation or disaster in your marriage prior to now.

Your son just isn’t the one one who deserves higher. It’s a serious crimson flag that your husband is so decided to regulate what you do with your personal cash. You’ll be able to’t power him so as to add your son to his will, however if you wish to discover out what choices you will have relating to your personal legacy if he predeceases you, you possibly can strive talking with an property lawyer. That’s assuming that you simply nonetheless wish to keep married to him, given how he’s handled you and your son—for those who determine you need out altogether, that’s a unique dialog with a unique lawyer.

—Nicole

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